The day that I filed for my divorce, was the day that I finally came to the realization that I have horrible taste in men. Most people assume that Ms. Put it Together, Counselor and Coach has all of the answers, and that my life is perfect. However, in reality that is so far-fetched. I am a human, a mother and an ex- just like many of the women that I network with. I made a host of poor decisions as it relates to finding love in my lifetime, and believe it or not, I am still recovering from those decisions.
You never really understand how important it is to think with your brain and not your heart, until you become successful and you have more to lose than the person that you are in a relationship with. For most women that I know, they typically meet a man that is in a stronger financial position than them, so when things go south, they end up coming out smelling like roses. However, I have always been independent, and with my marriage ending I came out smelling like baby shit. I know I know, the language- but this is ME! I am soo expressive with my own life, and I have reached this level of not caring about what anyone thinks or says about me.
I wanted to start a network where other women can come together, and their thoughts not be judged and they don't ever have to feel stupid for loving someone that didn't deserve it. The goal is to be a support system, and to help others learn from my mistakes and to also learn from what other positives and negatives that any one has to offer.
I am so excited to start this blog and share some of my thoughts with you guys, and I can't wait to hear about you!
Welcome to the thoughts of a SINGLE WOMAN!